Washington state high schooler Drake Wilson's mom placed this ad celebrating his coming out in the Houston Chronicle, hoping to inspire Texans to be more accepting of LGBTQ folks after the city's equal rights ordinance defeat.
courtesy of Darryl Morrison

Mom’s Houston Chronicle Ad Celebrates Gay Son Post-HERO


Readers of the Houston Chronicle may have noticed an unusual advertisement in the “Celebrations” section of Sunday’s edition.

The ad consisted of an announcement from unidentified parents saying their teenage son, “Drake,” had come out as gay. Drake was pictured in the ad but identified only by his first name.

Thanks to some cyber-sleuthing, the Observer determined that the teen in the ad is Drake Wilson, a senior who serves as student body vice president at Snohomish High School in Washington state.

Joan Wilson, Drake’s mother, said Tuesday that she placed the ad in response to the defeat of Houston’s Equal Rights Ordinance (HERO) in November.

“I couldn’t think of a better place than Houston, out of the entire country, where they needed to hear my message of pride,” Joan Wilson said, adding that she believes her son was born gay and created by God. “My announcement was my way of humanizing the issue.”  

HERO would have prohibited discrimination based on sexual orientation, gender identity and 13 other characteristics, until the ordinance was overwhelmingly repealed by voters.

“We are blessed to live in a state which has passed anti-discrimination laws,” Wilson said. “As a mother, I have much trepidation in thinking my son might one day live in a state such as Texas.”

After her son came out to her in February 2014, Joan Wilson launched The Society of Lucky Mothers, a group that celebrates LGBT children. In an essay on the group’s website, Wilson wrote that her son knew he was gay since 5th grade, and that his parents long suspected it, but he didn’t intend to come out publicly until college.

Then, Drake Wilson saw “The Normal Heart,” a TV adaptation of the iconic play about the AIDS crisis, and decided, given what the LGBT community endured in the 1980s, he should go ahead and come out.

Wilson, who’s biracial, posted a lighthearted coming out video on YouTube, in which he quipped that he’s often mistaken for actor Denzel Washington’s son and that he could be straight if Beyoncé were single.  

Joan Wilson, second from right, and her son, Drake, with members of the Society of Lucky Mothers at Seattle’s 2015 Pride Parade.
Joan Wilson, second from right, and her son, Drake, with members of the Society of Lucky Mothers at Seattle’s 2015 Pride Parade.  courtesy of Joan Wilson

“I would just like to say a big thank you to my whole family for being an example of how all families should be, and I’m thankful to all the men and women before me who have gotten this world to a place where I can come out at only 16 years old,” Wilson said in the video.

Wilson, who’s also captain of the varsity tennis team and a deacon in his church, told the Observer he’s applied to 15 colleges, but especially hopes to study at Columbia University.

Darryl Morrison, Houston-based creative operations manager for Getty Images, sent an image of Sunday’s ad to the Observer after his husband noticed it.

“I can’t say I’ve ever seen one of these before,” Morrison wrote. “With all the terrible LGBT news out of Houston lately, it was a sliver of hope.”